Operation: Get Him Thinking About You (A Comedy in Several Acts)
First, locate a comfortable pair of shoes. This isn't about running away, precisely, but about having the freedom to, should the situation warrant it. Plus, comfy shoes are essential for power-walking past him looking fabulous.
Casually drop something near him. A bright, cheerful pen. A silly key chain attached to your keys. Make sure he sees you drop it. The item must be inherently *you*.
Smile. Just a small, knowing smile that suggests you possess some incredible, hilarious secret. Then, walk away. Resist the urge to explain the smile. Let it linger in his mind like a catchy song.
Planting the Seed (Without Literally Planting a Seed)
Engage in activities that showcase your passions. Think pottery, volunteering at an animal shelter, or attempting (and probably failing hilariously) to assemble flat-pack furniture in public.
The key is to be seen. Not in a desperate, spotlight-hogging way, but in a "look at this amazing human just *existing* and enjoying life" kind of way. Let him witness your joy.
Mention a quirky hobby indirectly. Not, "Oh, I'm obsessed with competitive cheese sculpting," but rather, "This knife is perfect for... you know... *certain* things." (Wink optional, but highly encouraged).
Don't wait by your phone. Go live your life. Texting is great, but living a full and exciting life is even better. Plus, it gives you more interesting things to talk about when you *do* text.
The Art of the Disappearing Act (Not Forever, Just a Little Bit)
Be genuinely busy. Overbooking yourself isn't the goal, but prioritizing your own interests is. This is for you, not just for him. Really!
Short, sweet interactions are key. Leave him wanting more. Like a perfectly sized appetizer before a delicious main course. He needs to be hungry.
If he texts, respond thoughtfully, but not instantly. A few hours is fine. A few days might be pushing it, unless you're scaling Mount Everest or something equally impressive.
Decoding the Signals (Or Ignoring Them Completely)
Observe his body language. Is he leaning in? Making eye contact? Offering you his last french fry? These are all good signs.
Alternatively, ignore the signals and focus on having a good time. Sometimes, the best way to attract someone is to be completely oblivious to their attempts to attract you. It's delightfully ironic.
Don't be afraid to tease him gently. A playful jab can be incredibly endearing. Just make sure it's lighthearted and never mean-spirited. Remember, you're aiming for playful banter, not emotional warfare.
Compliment something other than his appearance. Notice his wit, his kindness, or his ability to parallel park perfectly. It shows you see beyond the surface.
The Grand Finale (Or, You Know, the Beginning)
Be yourself. Authenticity is incredibly attractive. Trying to be someone you're not is exhausting, and ultimately unsustainable.
Don't be afraid to be vulnerable. Sharing a genuine moment of honesty can create a powerful connection. Let him see the real you, flaws and all.
Remember that this whole process is about having fun and feeling good about yourself. If it feels like a chore, you're doing it wrong. Just relax and enjoy the ride. Love is not a race.
Ultimately, the best way to make a man chase you is to be someone worth chasing. Be kind, be confident, and be unapologetically yourself. And maybe, just maybe, wear those comfy shoes while doing it.
You got this!
