How To Flirt With An Ex

So, You Wanna Flirt With Your Ex, Huh?

Okay, okay. I get it. We've all been there. That lingering "what if" feeling can be strong.

My unpopular opinion? Sometimes, a little playful flirting is totally fine. Don't @ me.

Step 1: The "Accidental" Encounter

Casually bump into them. I'm talking strategically "accidental," people. Think their favorite coffee shop.

Make sure you look good. Just, you know, naturally good. Like you just rolled out of bed looking fabulous. (Even if it took an hour).

Smile. A genuine smile is your secret weapon. It's disarming.

Step 2: The Compliment That Doesn't Sound Desperate

Avoid anything heavy. "You look hotter than ever" is a definite no-no. We're going for subtle, folks.

Instead, try something like, "That's a cool shirt. I remember you always had great taste in music." Positive memory, gentle compliment.

Or, "Wow, you're still rocking that amazing hair." See? Easy peasy.

Step 3: The "Remember That Time..." Gambit

Bring up a funny, shared memory. The key is laughter. Laughter creates connection.

Avoid anything that ended badly. No need to rehash old arguments. We're aiming for nostalgia, not therapy.

Think: The time you both got hopelessly lost trying to find that pizza place. Or when they accidentally dyed their hair green.

Step 4: The Subtle Touch (Proceed With Caution!)

This one's tricky. Only attempt if the vibe is right. I repeat, *only* if the vibe is right.

A light touch on the arm while laughing. A brief brush of your hand against theirs while reaching for something. Small gestures.

Don't be creepy. I cannot stress this enough. If they recoil, abort mission immediately!

Step 5: The "I Gotta Run, But..." Exit Strategy

Don't linger too long. Leave them wanting more. End the conversation on a high note.

Say something like, "It was great seeing you! I should probably get going, but let's catch up sometime." Leave the ball in their court.

And most importantly, don't look back! Walk away confidently. Like you have a million amazing things to do. (Even if you're just going home to binge-watch Netflix).

Bonus Tip: Social Media Reconnaissance

Pay attention to their social media activity. What are they into these days?

This gives you conversation starters. "I saw you went to that new art exhibit! I've been meaning to check it out."

Just don't overdo it. Stalking is never cute. Keep it light, keep it breezy.

The Disclaimer (Because Lawyers)

Okay, obviously, this is all in good fun. Be respectful of your ex's boundaries. And your own.

If they're clearly not interested, back off. There are plenty of fish in the sea (or exes, depending on your dating history).

Ultimately, the decision is yours. But remember to proceed with caution, a dash of humor, and maybe, just maybe, a sprinkle of charm. Good luck, soldier.